Interview with Dr. Bri: Dilators, Pleasure, & Recovery from Pelvic Pain
Here I'm interviewed by Dr. Bri of Vibrant Pelvic Health!
With a focus on pelvic pain
Getting to Know Your “New Normal”: Tips for Sex When You Have Pelvic Pain
How can you get sexual by yourself or with someone else if you have chronic pelvic pain? I've got answers!
Pelvic Pain - Products For Sex And Day To Day Management
A brief guide to products that may help with pelvic pain--for both sexy times and day to day life.
What's Pelvic Pain and What Can I Do About It?
A pelvic pain 101 guide for all body types
I Tried the Hyped-Up Wearable That Promises to Relieve Pain During Sex
After a year of chronic pelvic pain, I found something that helps make penetrative sex possible.
Sexy Holiday Gift Guide — Sponsored by MedAmour
A holiday shopping guide that keeps folks with pelvic pain in mind!
Guide to Reclaiming Pleasurable Sex: Dyspareunia & Beyond
Chronic pain or discomfort during sex is common — it’s just not commonly talked about. I want to change that.
Versatile Sex Toys for Pelvic Pain
The theme here is versatility—because all of them have been helpful for medical reasons, but they all have fun/sexy uses as well!
How to Talk to Health Care Providers About Pain During Sex
Collaboration with another Rebellious writer wherein I interview a pelvic PT about treating trans & nonbinary folx.
Can An Intimate Wearable Change The Conversation About Sex?
The Ohnut wants to take the shame out of painful sex. Is a product all it takes?
Pelvic Floor Health 101: What to Look For and When to Seek Help
Anyone of any age can experience pelvic pain. What kind do you have? When should you see a professional?
Experiencing Sexual Pleasure When You Have Pelvic Pain
You need to be incredibly comfortable with your own body while navigating partnered sex with pelvic pain. Conversation is key.
Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and Finding Sex Toys that Work for Me
I have what’s called high-tone [pelvic floor dysfunction]: rather than my muscles being too weak, they are in spasm and too tense.
Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and Finding Sex Toys that Work for Me: Part 2
I had to utilize the deep breathing and pelvic floor lengthening/dropping techniques to re-introduce my body to vaginal penetration.
Sexuality and kink
Picking the Right Lube for You
The ultimate guide for veterans *and* beginners
'Vibrator Nation': Inside the Rise of Women-Run Sex Shops
New book dives into how feminist sex-toy stores changed the way women – and marginalized communities – embrace sex.
How Catwoman and Kink Helped Me Discover My Queerness
For some reason, there is no longer a byline on this piece, but I'm working to have that edited!
Why Animated Porn Is the Only Porn Worth Watching
There’s a simple reason I like animated porn: The people in animated porn are not real.
The Many Sides of International Sex Educator Midori
Probably best known for her sexuality education workshops and rope work (see her book, “The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage“), Midori is also an artist and a writer—of smut, not erotica, as she warned me when I purchased her short story collection...
Why Isn’t Pornography Part Of Sex Education For Teens?
Shouldn’t we be making sure our young people have access to the most feminist porn we can provide, and the ability to critique and contextualize what they’re seeing?
BDSM: Top Or Bottom? A Feminist Can Be Either
Sometimes, it takes us a while to accept ourselves for who we are. As a feminist, I was hesitant to fully embrace my kink identity.
Why Yoga and BDSM Are More Similar Than You Think
BDSM looks violent from the outside, but it offers me the same benefits of escape, empowerment, and serenity [as yoga].
Guest Blog: When You Have a Kinky Therapist
If you’re looking for a therapist and want one who is kink-identified, here are a few things to keep in mind.
(K)ink: Writing While Deviant – On Using Dangerous Tools & Toys
I am an emerging writer and fairly young kinkster. Excelling at BDSM and writing takes years of practice.
A Journey Into Kink Aware Therapy
I’ve changed out of my street clothes and exited the bathroom. My partner takes my hand and leads me to the private room in the back of the dungeon. I am nervous.
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